important lesson in life - balance. This means that you find yourself in situations where you have to decrease what there's too much of and increase what there's too little of. One-to-one relationships are particularly demanding as you have the task of establishing who is responsible for what, of being utterly fair in granting yourself and the other person equal rights, allowances for human error, etc.
Because balance is more of a critical factor for you than it is for most others, it would seem that there is often a steep imbalance between your position and the other person's. Grist for the mill, you could say. Upon passing this test, finding that crucial balance, you can land yourself with a relationship that is far more stable than most and become, in general, a fair judge of social affairs.
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