from whatever is inhibiting you. In order to do this you have to establish a set of rules that allows you to break the rules that were laid down for you initially. If this sounds like a recipe for hypocrisy then you're right, it is - and you could lose (or never gain) many friends as a reaction to your double standards.
If, on the other hand, you take the trouble to devise a set of moral, political or psychological principles - and stick to them - then your impartial view of life can be of enormous help to anyone who feels caught between two camps. In order that you begin to meet this objective, you will attract relationships and situations that force you to come clean with the stark truth of the matter. In the process though, beware of merely being offhand about your shortcomings, because that would put you back to square one.
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